I have moon in Scorpio, 3rd house, and he has Capricorn moon, 3rd house. We have had a history of lots of fighting. I don't know if it has as much to do with the moons as it does with other aspects, although I could be wrong. He's a Sag Sun in 1st house, Scorpio rising. I'm Virgo in the 1st house with Virgo rising. My Mars is in Virgo, also in the 1st house, while his is in Scorpio, also in the 1st house.

My issues: He can be a space cadet. He can be deceitful and "secretive". He doesn't take very good care of himself. All the things I do in moderation, if at all, he does to excess, which drives me nuts.

His issues: I am a "DOM" (which is fortunate for him actually)

We are best friends though, and love each other more than a little bit. We both have Chiron in Aquarius.

my love and i have the same placements for venus as well... its not easy

that's your Gemini Rising 1st house mars

they've always been Easy to me

they may have been born at a time when their mother was experiencing a crisis in her life? Or his birth may have been somehow traumatic. As a very young child, they may have experienced their mother as being rather emotionally possessive, controlling, and intense in her relationship with you.

How did they deal with their sensitive emotions intensily

astrology.about.com/od/yourz...orpio.htm

The Moon is the "place" where we go for comfort when scared.... and, as adults, we tend to unconsciously nurture ourselves in much the same way our mothers nurtured and cared for us when we were very young children. Therefore, as an adult, they have a strong need for emotional intensity, and they may often feel an overwhelming need for emotional drama in their life. With the Moon in Scorpio, feeling bad is often much better than feeling nothing at all. Under stress they might even resort to unconsciously acting and behaving in ways which will then create this needed emotional drama and intensity in their life.

Caps can be emotionally distant, aloof and cold. They’re wondering what’s wrong with us too

Cap mothers may have required us to emotionally mature faster

cold and aloof Makes Scorp moons even more intense

But over all these two are a great match. Cap moons help Scorpio moons cool down and turn that intensity into great healing, psychic energy, anda very passionate connections ...there's no one deeper or down for you, if chanelled properly

They’re (Scrop moons) passion personified, if given the trust and faithfulness of Caps is what Scorp’s so desire

Yeah there really is something to the moon/mother relation.

I think the Scorp. and/or Cap. moons' mother feels too stressed-busy to deal with her children and the mother expects the child to understand. I always sort of had the idea that my mother had a child for her own emotional fulfillment (which she has actually sort of confirmed) I dunno... maybe that's why many women want a child... but in these cases it seems the mothers are a bit selfish and have a real lack of concern for the childs growth.

I'm a Cap Moon, and I currently like a Scorpio Moon. I have no idea what's going on. I've got some feelings bubbling up right now. I thought we were having a good time together, and now he's "disappeared"...lucky me. Well he hasn't disappeared literally, ( I shouldn't have to clarify that), but he's withdrawing now, I think. This is a complex situation as well, due to the past and other people. But yes, I do feel something for this scorpio...I think I'm wrapped around his finger here, or shall I say around his stinger...but I'm trying to hide that fact..me being capricorn here. I'm just really confused :S blahhhh.

to be fair there's 2 positive things which I can attribute to the capricorn moons I know:
1. If you need (or don't need) a good thorough dressing-down they'll give it to you without you needing to ask them to, leaving you feel thoroughly grounded, and resentful.
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2. they have expert advanced driving skills.